December of 2019 I attended Ariana Grande’s “Sweetener World Tour” at Colonial Life Arena in South Carolina and I enjoyed myself! Although the pop/R&B singer, Ariana Grande, is in her mid twenties, her fan base is a wide range of ages considering some of her fan base knows her from when she was a child actress on a Nickelodeon children’s TV show to her adult pop star life. There were a lot of preteens with their chaperones, teenagers, and college-age adults there.
Near the t-shirt and merchandise lines in the arena were areas for young people to register to vote. I thought that it was cool that Ariana is using her platform to make sure her fan base is registered to vote in local and national elections using the hashtag #thankunextgen.
At 8:25 pm the lights in the stadium went off and the opening act was the pop/rap duo Social House.
They’ve written songs for various pop stars and performed a couple of songs. After Social House performed there was a break and most of the audience sat in anticipation as a pop and r&b playlist ranging from Whitney Houston to The Backstreet Boys played in the background until it was time for Ariana to hit the stage. At 9:25 pm the antsy crowd went crazy because Ariana finally hit the stage and there was a huge moon lunar eclipse prop behind her and the dancers.
Ariana had her signature ponytail hairstyle and her petite frame was glowing belting out ”An Angel Cried” followed by other songs like ”R.E.M” ”7 Rings”, ”Side to Side”, ”Breathin’”, and other tracks off of her ”Sweetener”, ”Thank U Next”, and ”Dangerous Woman”, “My Everything” and “Yours Truly” albums and since it’s December she performed some songs off of her “Christmas & Chill” mixtape.
I left the show a little early to beat traffic. Overall I enjoyed the almost sold-out show and the visuals. I just wish Ariana would’ve come on stage earlier considering the concert ticket said 8 pm and she didn’t start until almost 9:30 pm. Ariana was energetic and her voice was crisp and her dancers and the band were on point! If you’re interested in more concert details follow the #SweetenerWorldTour hashtag on social media or check out http://www.ticketmaster.com.
Below is a Spotify playlist with some of my favorite Ariana Grande songs. Click here for Apple Music and click here for Tidal.
December of 2019 I attended Ariana Grande’s “Sweetener World Tour” at Colonial Life Arena in South Carolina and I enjoyed myself! Although the pop/R&B singer, Ariana Grande, is in her mid twenties, her fan base is a wide range of ages considering some of her fan base knows her from when she was a child actress on a Nickelodeon children’s TV show to her adult pop star life. There were a lot of preteens with their chaperones, teenagers, and college-age adults there.
Near the t-shirt and merchandise lines in the arena were areas for young people to register to vote. I thought that it was cool that Ariana is using her platform to make sure her fan base is registered to vote in local and national elections using the hashtag #thankunextgen.
At 8:25 pm the lights in the stadium went off and the opening act was the pop/rap duo Social House.
They’ve written songs for various pop stars and performed a couple of songs. After Social House performed there was a break and most of the audience sat in anticipation as a pop and r&b playlist ranging from Whitney Houston to The Backstreet Boys played in the background until it was time for Ariana to hit the stage. At 9:25 pm the antsy crowd went crazy because Ariana finally hit the stage and there was a huge moon lunar eclipse prop behind her and the dancers.
Ariana had her signature ponytail hairstyle and her petite frame was glowing belting out ”An Angel Cried” followed by other songs like ”R.E.M” ”7 Rings”, ”Side to Side”, ”Breathin’”, and other tracks off of her ”Sweetener”, ”Thank U Next”, and ”Dangerous Woman”, “My Everything” and “Yours Truly” albums and since it’s December she performed some songs off of her “Christmas & Chill” mixtape.
I left the show a little early to beat traffic. Overall I enjoyed the almost sold-out show and the visuals. I just wish Ariana would’ve come on stage earlier considering the concert ticket said 8 pm and she didn’t start until almost 9:30 pm. Ariana was energetic and her voice was crisp and her dancers and the band were on point! If you’re interested in more concert details follow the #SweetenerWorldTour hashtag on social media or check out http://www.ticketmaster.com.
Below is a Spotify playlist with some of my favorite Ariana Grande songs. Click here for Apple Music and click here for Tidal.
I just saw the film “Queen and Slim” by black female directors Lena Waithe and Melina Matsoukas and I’m full of emotions. The film stars Daniel Kaluuya and Jodie Turner-Smith playing “Queen” and “Slim.” This is the kind of film that you’ll want to see for yourself and discuss afterwards with family and friends because everyone has a different take away.
I have so many emotions and feelings about the characters and the film and the symbolism. The movie is an emotional roller coaster and I recommend adults to bring tissues to watch the long two hour Rated-R film for yourself and then come back to the blog to read. (SPOILER ALERT) We did not know the name of the main characters until the tragic ending of the film. The couples names revealed at the end on the news were revealed to be “Angela/Queen” and “Ernest/Slim.” Although the film is called “Queen and Slim” those weren’t the couples names and I don’t recall the characters referencing one another’s names on the date or through the film. People online have been calling the film “The Black Bonnie and Clyde”, but “Bonnie” and “Clyde” were actual white criminals on the run. Whereas the main characters in this film aren’t technically criminals on the run, but a black couple in the U.S. with no criminal record in America acting in self-defense.
As you know the film is about a black couple going on their first date and things turn for the worst when they are pulled over by a racist white male police officer. Things turn for the worst when the white police officer aims his gun at the black couple and a verbal altercation and fight breaks out between the black couple and the white officer. The officer shoots the gun at ”Angela/Queen” and the bullet grazes her thigh causing her to bleed and ”Ernest/Slim” starts fighting the police officer eventually the fight ends when ”Slim/Ernest” reaches for the gun killing the officer. The couple who met on a smartphone dating app immediately throw their phones out and flee the crime scene and go on the run eventually stopping in Louisiana at “Queen/Angela’s” uncle’s house as a place of refuge.
I wondered if “Angela/Queen” would have never said anything to the cop would things have turned out differently? Who knows? One night literally changed two strangers, “Queen & Slim”’s, lives forever. In my opinion, the film is a heartbreaking reality for many of being black in America and having unfair interactions with the police. The police officer’s camera was on and recorded the incident and it received thousands of views on social media so “everyone” knows that they’re on the run. “Angela/Queen” is a lawyer and got her uncle out of jail for accidentally killing her mother years ago. In return, ”Queen/Angela”’s uncle, who happens to be a pimp, helps her and ”Ernest/Slim” flee. “Angela/Queen’s” uncle knows a white couple in Savannah that can help them escape. The white couple fixes dinner for “Queen & Slim”, but immediately after prayer at dinner, the cops surround the white couple’s home. The white couple immediately tells “Queen & Slim” to hide under the bed floor. The cops search the house and don’t find them. Eventually, after some time passes “Queen & Slim” escape from the bedroom floor by jumping out of the window. While jumping out of the window ”Angela/Queen” hurts her shoulder. ”Slim/Ernest” helps push ”Queen/Angela”’s shoulder back in the socket in the garage. Slim hotwired the car in the white couple’s garage and all of a sudden a black police officer opens the garage door, but he lets them go free. Eventually, the couple makes it to the airplane to go to Cuba with help from a black man who drops them off at the runway, and as they are walking about to board the aircraft we see the police show up and we learn the black guy turned them in for the police reward money. So sad how some times people that look like you aren’t always for you.
I was heartbroken about the deaths of “Queen/Angela” and “Slim/Ernest.” I really thought “Queen/Angela” would live and could possibly be “Slim/Ernest’s” legacy and possibly have his legacy, but she is shot by a white female officer and seconds later “Slim/Ernest” picks up “Angela/Queen’s” lifeless body and he is also shot to death by the cops. That particular scene reminds me of when “Cleo” dies in the 90’s film “Set it Off”. I knew the story wouldn’t be “happily ever after”, yet I didn’t want to see them be murdered. They left an impact and legacy through their deaths. Throughout the film “Angela/Queen” is physically hurt from the police officer’s shot in her thigh, to hurting her shoulder, to dying at the end from another officer’s bullet. Was this an example of how black women endure so much pain? I’m not sure, yet “Queen & Slim”’ were there for one another and grew a bond throughout the film. Maybe the movie is about the journey and the ups and downs of different types of love between black men and black women? “Slim/Ernest” called his father on the car mechanic’s
telephone. He had a father and a relationship with family and missed him whereas “Queen/Angela”’ has nothing to lose and no close friends or family connections so she was never hesitant about leaving the crime scene or fleeing to never return again. “Angela/Queen” becomes more vulnerable when “Slim/Ernest” and her take a detour and go dancing, see the horses, and go to the graveyard to see her mother’s tombstone and eventually have sex in the car.
I thought the one scene with the young teenage boy shooting the black police officer was disturbing, but did he want to be “immortal” or be “famous” like “Queen & Slim”?! I also learned from the film that how in life you’ll never know who may help you. The people that may help you won’t always look like you or live like you. I also learned that opposites attract. “Queen” and “Slim” had opposite personalities, but they fit one another and fall in “love.” I don’t know how this film will be received by the public or by movie critics. I appreciated the attention to detail and how the film left certain things up for your own interpretation. I left the theater in a sad, yet thoughtful trance. I had to watch a cartoon or something happy afterwards! Some people may say it’s the best or the worst, but all I know is that it’s a piece of art that can be dissected, debated, and discussed for years to come.
Check out my Pop/Soul Christmas playlist on Spotify. Also, available on Apple Music under “asiamberjamz”. The playlist features songs from Destiny’s Child, *NSYNC, Mariah Carey, Donny Hathaway, and other artists.
It’s HBCU Homecoming Season! The time of year when historically black college and university alumni from across the country come together to fellowship for the biggest friends and family reunion football game of the season.
I can already smell the food on the grill, see the hugs, hear the band, and see the pageant waves from the homecoming queen and the royal court during the parade, but before you make your homecoming plans here are a few rules for alums:
1. Plan to use your vacation day(s) or plan to be off work so that you can enjoy yourself and recover from the weekend. You aren’t 21 anymore.
2. Have a place to stay or get a hotel room.
3. Wear comfortable shoes at the tailgate.
4. Drink some water and stay hydrated and know your limits.
5. Stretch before you go to the party, so you won’t have to utilize an Icy Hot patch the next day after strolling or dancing too hard.
6. Have a designated driver or use Uber.
7. Take pictures and make new memories. However be aware that you have a job-career now, so be cautious of what you upload to social media or update your “privacy” settings.
8. We remember you before the degrees and titles and also how you treated folks years ago. As Dr. Maya Angelou said, “People may forget what you said or did, but they’ll never forget how you made them feel” remember that and act accordingly.
9. Get tickets for different events and have cash for various vendors.
10. Have a portable cell phone charger.
11. Network and talk to your peers face-to-face and exchange contact information.
12. Last but certainly not least, have fun, and don’t forget to contribute your time, money, and resources back to your HBCU to impart into future generations.
Follow me on Twitter: @asiamber and let me know what HBCU you represent in the comments below!
I miss the girl groups of the 90’s and 2000’s. One of my favorite girl groups was Destiny’s Child. I remember buying “The Writings on the Wall” album from Wal-Mart when I was in elementary school. I was so hype. I had saved my lil’ money up and really wanted to have their CD after seeing them on The WB TV-show “Smart Guy” where they made a guest appearance. I even wanted my hair burgundy and curly like Latavia in the “Bills Bills Bills” music video and my room like Beyoncé’s on The MTV CRIBS episode where her bedroom ceiling was painted to look like clouds. If there is ever a reunion tour in the future I will have to be there! This playlist consists of my favorite songs from Destiny’s Child. This playlist is also available on click here Apple Music under “asiamberjamz” and on Spotify by clicking the link below:
This photo was taken back in April of 2016 at an album listening party before the 2016 Election and before Chrisette voiced her political opinions.
R&B- Singer-songwriter, Chrisette Michele, lost some fans and some career opportunities a few years ago after singing at Donald Trump’s Inauguration. I love Chrisette’s music, but have some questions and concerns about her choice to sing at Trump’s Inauguration.
Did Chrisette really just need the money, did she really support Trump, or did she not want to listen to her fan base? I think of the phrase all money ain’t good money!
I can’t help but nod my head to the beat when I hear “Aston Martin Music” come on a throwback playlist.
Back in April of 2016, I had a chance to meet Chrisette Michele at an album listening party in Columbus, GA at CIRCA Lounge and she so was very kind, answered questions, and took photos with the public. However, this was before the 2016 Election and before Chrisette voiced her opinions on politics. Later on in the year many fans were disappointed to learn of Chrisette’s decision to sing at Trump’s inauguration.
People are entitled to their opinions and choices, yet when someone you admire and listen to “supports” someone who you don’t agree with do you stop supporting them?
Chrisette did not rape, abuse, or kill anyone, but she sang at an event for someone who has numerous alleged assault cases against women and has said very foul things about people of color.
How come some people “canceled” Chrisette Michele, but not other artists?
It’s very challlenging for me to support someone who is so musically gifted with amazing songs, yet has beliefs and behaviors I don’t agree with. Example: Kanye West.
Should we separate the artist from their art or behaviors or beliefs?
My next question is will the “Epiphany” singer ever have an epiphany and see her fan bases perspective?
Have her political views changed and evolved?
Will the public ever give her grace and support her again or will she spend a “Couple of Forevers” on the “canceled” list?
Beyoncé’s #Homecoming film chronicles the singer’s 2018 Coachella music festival performance. Beyoncé was scheduled to perform at the 2017 Coachella music festival, but was pregnant with twins Rumi and Sir Carter, and had to postpone her performance to 2018. The Coachella music festival held in the California desert was way too expensive for my budget, so I was happy her performance was live-streamed on YouTube to watch for FREE! I was so hyped to be able to see an amazing performance from the comfort and air-conditioned atmosphere of home. I remember April of 2018 setting my alarm to wake me up so I could watch Beyoncè’s highly anticipated Coachella performance on YouTube. As soon as the drum line and band and dancers came out I screamed in excitement! Beyoncé’s epic two-hour 2018 Coachella performance had a live Black drum-line and many other band members, dancers, and even cameos from her husband Jay-Z, her sister Solange, and her Destiny’s Child group members Kelly Rowland and Michelle Williams. One of my favorite parts was when Beyoncè and the band swag surfed and danced to O.T. Genesis’ “Everybody Mad”, and oh so much more! As an HBCU graduate and Beyoncè fan, I felt so proud and validated that she paid homage to Black college and band culture during her 2018 Coachella performance and she is financially giving back to HBCU’s!
I remember in high school some questioned my choice and looked down on me when I said I was going to a historically Black school for college. My college experience at Fort Valley State University gave me opportunities to travel the world from NYC to Italy and has helped to shape me into the person I am. I wanted to see more of the behind-the-scenes of Beyoncé’s iconic and legendary performance. I may be biased, but Beyoncé’s work ethic is phenomenal! I’ve been blessed to have seen her in concert four times and she gives her all on stage! Who else can sell out stadiums in seconds, make award-winning albums, make films, have a family, and go on a world tour all within a short time span?!?! With that being said don’t forget to watch ” HOMECOMING” on Netflix and listen to the “Homecoming” album as well as my “As-I-Amber” podcast episode available on Spotify, iTunes/Apple Podcasts and other podcast platforms.