Whew! Chris Brown’s ATL stop Sunday was more than a concert—it was a masterclass in music,energy, ‘cancel culture’, forgiveness, maturity, and real-life gems. Here’s what the night reminded me:
🤎 1. Uplift Others & Let GOD handle the rest Like him or not Chris didn’t need opening acts after 20 years in the industry, but he still chose to bring out opening acts Summer Walker & Bryson Tiller—proving that success isn’t always just about you shining solo, but sharing the spotlight.
🫠 2. Planning, Management & Communication MATTER I got in smoothly (early birds win!), but many had seating issues due to poor event logistics and lack of crowd control. Sold-out crowds need better prep—especially at venues like Truist Park.
⏰ 3. Be On Time. Period. Opening acts at 7:00 sharp. Chris hit the stage at 8:20 on the dot. Punctuality shows professionalism—and respect for your audience’s time.
🔥 4. Let Your Work Speak for You Chris Brown is an entertainer. Period. From flying above the crowd to complex routines, lighting, wardrobe changes, and transitions—he gave us a production, not just a show.
🎶❤️🩹 5. Music Heals. Some songs hit the soul. Others remind you of simpler times like creating your MySpace layout or Top 8.🤣 #iykyk Bow Wow also came out on stage to oerform “Shortie Like Mine” with Chris. Music really brings people through tough times and unites people from ALL walks of life. Chris Brown has 50-leven songs.
📲 6. Be Present. Yes, I recorded a few moments and put my phone up—but watching it through your screen isn’t the same. Sometimes, the real flex is soaking it all in, live and unfiltered.
🎶❤️🩹 7. Music Sets the Tone Whether it was heartbreak anthems or club bangers, the crowd felt every note. Nostalgia, connection, gratitude—all in one night. If you have a chance to see him perform live do so. It was worth my time and money. 10 out of 10. Also some of his songs are for the grown folks/PG-13. 💅🏾
Aaliyah at her album release signing at FYE Music Store. July 2001. Photo courtesy of fanpop.com
🕊️Aaliyah Dana Haughton 1/16/1979–8/25/2001
I often think about where triple threat singer, dancer, and actress, Aaliyah would be if she were still alive. Even though it’s been 24 years since her death and final album she is still so relevant. There’s no doubt about it that Aaliyah had a major impact on millennials and her legacy for us ’80’s and ’90’s babies is unforgettable. From her signature sleek and straight hair and swoop, shades, leather outfits, ombre hair, makeup, music videos and Tommy Hilfiger outfits, to her dancing and acting she was a standout and admired star whose influence can even be seen in various Pop and R&B artists today. Everyone from Normani, Tink, Drake, Jeezy, and Chris Brown have sampled her.
Back on July 7, 2001, I was just 10-years-old and excited about Aaliyah’s self-titled third album dropping. I use to watch 106 & Park with hosts Free and AJ on BET faithfully as a young tween and Aaliyah was on the show promoting her album. I also remember MTV had a show called “Diary” where they would go behind-the-scenes with certain artists and I couldn’t wait for Aaliyah’s episode to air.
The 106 & Park Aaliyah Interview is available to watch here)
The MTV Diary episode is currently available to watch here)
Anyway, I really wanted Aaliyah’s CD, but I remember my mom said that it was “too grown” for me to get. Little did we know it would be her final album and she would pass weeks later in a tragic plane crash in the Bahamas after filming the music video for the sensual single “Rock the Boat.”
The inside of Aaliyah’s self-titled album.
I remember MTV News and the radio announced that the singer passed and I just couldn’t believe it. I was so hurt about the death of someone I had never even met. My Dad eventually purchased the CD for me and said it was a classic and would be a collectible and he was right.
It took years, but Aaliyah’s musical catalog is now available on streaming sites. I’m not sure of the all the legalities or exact reasons why Blackground Records and Aaliyah’s Estate have issues when it comes to royalties etc., but at least younger and older generations can now listen and have access to her music.
My Aaliyah CD- Collection
My “Aaliyah” vinyl + album cover
I was re-listening to Aaliyah’s self-titled album through my 2025 adult ears and it just resonated and hit different! There are so many tracks in her musical catalog that could’ve been singles and sound like they came out recently instead of years ago. The self-titled genre bending album combined, Rock on tracks like “I Can Be” and “What If”, Flamenco on songs like “Read Between The Lines”, Pop, R&B, and Hip-Hop, with lead singles “We Need a Resolution” and “More Than A Woman”, and spoke of a young woman in her early 20’s singing about pleasure “Rock The Boat”, pain and abuse “Never No More” and “I Refuse”, relationships and life lessons and love on “Those Were The Days”, “Extra Smooth”, “U Got Nerve”, “I Care 4 U”and “Try Again”. That album template is now the norm, but was ground-breaking for a 20-something young woman in 2001 to combine different moods and genres. One line that always stuck out to me was the lyric “Speak your heart don’t bite your tongue. Don’t get it twisted. Don’t misuse it.”- Aaliyah “We Need a Resolution” feat. Timbaland. I feel like every track and lyric had a purpose or mood that was fitting.
One underrated track in my opinion was the electronic and futuristic sounding “LOOSE RAP”, which is the second track on Aaliyah’s self-titled album. Produced by Key Beats and written by the late Stephen “Static Major” Garrett, who also penned other songs in Aaliyah’s musical catalog, is a fusion of experimental synthesized beats, ad-libs, and echoes. “We got something for all the fools it ain’t just rhythm and blues.” Aaliyah declared that her musical sound and image were not just limited to an R&B music box that speaks of her unique sound, image, and artistry.
Back in 2001, Aaliyah was not only singing and dancing, but she started to branch out into different musical genres on her third album and acted in films such as “Queen of the Damned” and “Romeo Must Die.” Aaliyah and Static Major may have passed on, but their presence left a mark and the duo sure didn’t lose our attention in loose rap. Throughout the song Static Major and Aaliyah declare their annoyance, confidence, and competitive nature in various aspects of life, love, and the music and entertainment industry.
Back of the “Aaliyah” vinyl record
In the introduction, Aaliyah’s voice echoes “I’m sick and tired of the loose rap” while Static Major states, ”For the ’01I know you can come better come better than that so you can kill all your loose rap.” On the Aaliyah: Behind the Scenes segment on the posthumous album and DVD “I Care 4 U” Aaliyah said that her name is Arabic “meaning the highest most exalted one.. the best and I really wanted that name to carry the project.” From the origins of her name to the album’s title, and the third verse on “loose rap”: ”If you just quit trying to compete, yeah, No telling what you could be, might even be doper than me…I doubt it.” Aaliyah addresses her adversaries and exudes a confidence and self-assuredness, talent, and an incomparable uniqueness to the point where her influence and impact are still present in music and fashion decades later.
Additionally, on the posthumous album and DVD “I Care 4 U” there is an “Aaliyah: Behind the Scenes” segment where Aaliyah gives her opinion on certain tracks off her third album. In regards to this particular song she stated, “I love it so much because if you listen to it this is how I listen to it how I take this song it tells three different stories and it’s just really about people come up to you with a whole lotta smack and weak rap and it’s like I don’t wanna hear any of your loose rap.” The first verse whether it be a guy or girl being a little bit jealous of you and you saying I know what you talk smack behind my back but I don’t care because I know you’re just speaking “loose rap.” The second verse is about a guy coming to me kickin’ game tryna be my guy and I’m like your game is a lil’ weak, but I might give you a chance even though you’re kicking loose rap, and the third verse speaks about my crew, Tim and everybody all of us and the music we make our creativity and people being a little bit jealous of that and really trying not to feel it but it’s okay because everything you say is just loose rap so it tells 3 different stories and I think it’s really just hot.” The song is one of those tracks that isn’t wrapped up in yesteryear. Twenty-one years later this song and the rest of the album still sounds current and wrapped and layered with synths that can ride the waves of time.
Here is a Millennial Mix playlist taking you back to homeroom and MySpace Top 8 and 106 & Park days. 🎶 Also, available on #AppleMusic under “asiamberjamz.” Click here for the playlist.
My classmates and I at graduation in 2013. I am standing on the far right.
It’s Back-to-School season y’all! Whew Chile! It’s been over a decade since I’ve been a student and I have learned and am still learning a LOT in life! In 2009, I graduated from a small private predominately white high school and in 2013 I graduated from a historically black college, Fort Valley State University. These two totally “different worlds” and school experiences have shaped who I am and who I am becoming. I wanted to share my knowledge of being a former student leader for freshman year students. Listen or watch the podcast below and check out the list of advice below. Do you have any advice you’d give a new college student?
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ADVICE FOR FRESHMAN YEAR: 1. Establish rules and communicate early on with your roommate(s). Y’all don’t have to be best friends, but you live together now so respect people’s things and have boundaries. 2. Please be yourself and talk to people you don’t already know. 3. If you’re feeling down and need someone to talk to go seek out your university’s infirmary and seek free counseling if available. 4. I know it’s a new environment, but try not to go home every weekend and try not to stay in your dorm all day. 5. If you have a car make sure to get a parking decal asap! 6. If you have a car make sure you’re not being used by others who won’t even give you gas money or say thank you for giving them a ride. 7. There’s pros and cons to everything. In my opinion if you’re not a morning person don’t take an 8 A.M. class or maybe you are a morning person, so take the class and get it over with and have the rest of the day to yourself. 8. Check out websites like Chegg and Google other book rental sites before going to the bookstore. 9. When dealing with advisors, professors, financial aid, etc. make a copy of everything they give you. Keep your receipts and emails! 10. Figure out what campus activities or clubs fit your personality. 11. If you are interested in a historically black fraternity or sorority do not tell everybody. Focus on your grades and community service. 12. Be careful about what you post on social media. There is life after college and future employers look at that. 13. If you have an online class or have to upload an assignment online upload it early because sometimes depending on where you are or what time of day it is the WiFi won’t be as strong. 14. If you don’t understand something or need extra help seek out a tutor and go to your professor during their office hours to ask questions or get clarity on something you didn’t understand during the lecture. 15. Try to call or text your parent(s) at least once every few weeks and not only when you need or want something. 16. Focus on your required classes before permanently choosing a major. So if you choose to change majors you won’t lose so many credits. 17. Talk to your academic advisor. This person is vital in helping you know what classes you need to take in order to graduate on time. 18. Go to class and try your best to sit up front and take notes. 19. Get a part time job. It’s nice to have money in your pockets and good to have work experience. 20. Take advantage of free things your campus may offer. 21. Invest in a good umbrella and get some rain boots because when it rains on campus at FVSU it poured down! 22. I know the cafeteria has various food options, but try to eat healthy when you can. Don’t forget to try to get at least 6 to 8 hours of sleep a night. 23. Get involved in the community and city your college is in. 24. Go to the library and study there.
25. Study Hard, but Play Hard. Enjoy your college years and cherish the moments!
Whitney Houston’s self-titled debut album from 1985 is still a classic. Whitney’s voice was everything! It has been 10 years since the singer-actress passed away. Whitney didn’t have to distract audiences with flamboyant sets, dance routines, and costumes she just sang. It’s very rare that a performer can just rely on vocals and personality to emotionally captivate an audience in song and film. Whitney, like lots of other people had her share of struggles, just displayed on camera. It’s bittersweet, because she was on a comeback. However, Whitney’s legacy will most definitely be her vocal range and ability to sing every genre from Gospel to Pop. People forget that “I Will Always Love You” was a country song, written and originally performed by country star, Dolly Parton and “I’m Every Woman” was originally performed by R&B diva, Chaka Khan .Whitney paid respect to other female vocalists, but her version of the song is what people of a certain age usually think of first. I will always remember where I was when I found out about the deaths of Michael Jackson, Aaliyah, and now Whitney Houston. I remember being at a college basketball game and everyone started looking at their phones thinking it was a cruel internet joke, but it wasn’t. I remember going to my dorm room and crying on the phone to my momma and watching CNN and going on YouTube to listen to her musical catalog.
Whitney’s debut on vinyl from my Daddy’s vinyl record collection.
When I was little my mother use to play Whitney’s music on cassette tape in the car all the time! I think their impact is different for various people, but I grew up listening to their music, singing their music around the house, and watching them on award shows and movies in the 90s. For young black girls growing up in the 90s, we didn’t have “Princess and the Frog”. “Rodgers and Hammerstein’s Cinderella”; starring Brandy as Cinderella and Whitney Houston as “ The Fairy Godmother” was a “big deal”! Whitney Houston paved the way for other solo artists like Brandy, Beyoncé, Mariah Carey, and Monica. There will never be another “Whitney Houston”, she will be forever missed by her family, friends, and fans.
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